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Does a church pastor or spiritual leader have the authority to speak curses or negative declarations over a believer?

My Personal Experience: When a Spiritual Leader Spoke Negative Words Over My Future Before diving into what the Bible teaches about pastoring, spiritual authority, blessings, and curses, I want to share the personal experience that led me to study this subject. What Happened On October 22, 2026, I had an interaction with a pastor from Jabalpur. During our conversation, he compared me to others and spoke negatively about my future. He declared that I would remain in a lower position, that I would not grow or be lifted up like my peers, and that others would continually surpass me. I understood these statements not merely as constructive advice or godly correction, but as negative declarations over my life - effectively spoken as a curse ( shaapam ). Naturally, this experience hurt me deeply. I fully recognize that pastors have a responsibility to correct believers when necessary. Correction itself is vital; if I make a mistake, I am willing to ...

Waiting for Better Days

I believe difficult days are temporary. Better days are coming. And most importantly, I believe God is with me. When people leave, He stays. When people doubt, He knows the truth. When I feel weak, He gives strength. I put Him first in my life. I trust that He will take care of everything I need - not always what I want, but what is right for me. - Moses Charlie Yalla

Loneliness Teaches Powerful Lessons

There are moments when we feel completely alone. The people we expected to stand beside us slowly disappear. And that silence hurts more than words. In those lonely times, I discovered something beautiful - animals never judge, never pretend, and never betray. Spending time with them feels peaceful. Their loyalty is pure. Their presence is honest. Sometimes, animals understand emotions better than humans. - Moses Charlie Yalla

When People Don’t Trust Us, It’s Better to Walk Away

There comes a point in life when we realize something painful - not everyone will trust us, no matter how genuine we are. I used to believe that if I explained myself again and again, people would understand me. I thought if I proved my intentions, they would finally trust me. But I learned something the hard way: trust cannot be forced . When someone has already decided not to trust you, no amount of explaining will change their mindset. Fighting for validation only drains your peace. And I have lost the patience to run behind people who are unsure about my worth. Walking away is not weakness. It is self-respect. - Moses Charlie Yalla

Don’t Chase Jobs - Build Skills That Make Opportunities Chase You

Jobs are pursued by many, but mastery is rare. Degrees may open doors, but skills keep them open. True knowledge is not about certificates or titles - it's about mastery. People will stand at your door if you become a master in your field. You won’t run behind people for a job. Never beg for a job; let your skills speak louder than your words. That’s the real value of knowledge. - Moses Charlie Yalla

People Who Belong Will Always Fight to Stay

In life, not everyone who enters our journey is meant to stay forever. Some people come to teach us lessons, some come to help us grow, and some leave when their purpose is fulfilled. But one truth becomes clear with time: people who truly belong will always fight to stay. Belonging is not proven by words. It is proven by effort. When situations become difficult, when misunderstandings arise, or when life gets complicated, people who belong don’t look for excuses to leave. They look for reasons to stay. Those who don’t belong often disappear when things stop being convenient. They choose comfort over commitment and distance over dialogue. It’s not because you weren’t enough - it’s because they were never meant to walk the journey with you. Fighting to stay doesn’t always mean arguments or dramatic gestures. Sometimes, it means listening. Sometimes, it means understanding. Sometimes, it simply means choosing not to walk away when walking away feels easy. As we grow, we must learn an imp...

In India, Your Rank Chooses Your Future

 The harsh truth in India is that we don’t choose colleges; colleges choose us. - Moses Charlie Yalla